Do you find yourself procrastinating: the laundry is piling up, there are dishes in the sink, and you haven’t called your parents… I know it can be a real struggle to get motivated. But give yourself a pat on the back for clicking on this article! It took a considerable amount of motivation to get here.
A 3-Step Process To Get Motivated
- Do One Small Task (even if it’s just a part of a task!).
- Repeat after me: Motivation comes after action. We feel motivated when dopamine is released into our bodies (e.g., eating a delicious treat will release dopamine, signaling to you that you’d enjoy eating another one). It’s very hard to make ourselves feel motivated without taking any action that produces dopamine.
- If you have a hard time getting started:
- Start with the easiest task
- Set a timer to work for just a few minutes
- Alternate between the task and an enjoyable activity
- If you have a hard time getting started:
- Repeat after me: Motivation comes after action. We feel motivated when dopamine is released into our bodies (e.g., eating a delicious treat will release dopamine, signaling to you that you’d enjoy eating another one). It’s very hard to make ourselves feel motivated without taking any action that produces dopamine.
- Reward Yourself… Intrinsically.
- It’s fun to reward yourself with a sweet treat or a binge marathon of your favorite show occasionally, though intrinsic rewards provide more lasting motivation. This can be achieved by acknowledging your progress, reminding yourself of the benefits of completing your tasks, and visualizing how you’ll feel when you reach your goals. When you allow yourself to bask in these pleasures, you maximize the release of dopamine into your system, building up a strong sense of motivation.
- It’s fun to reward yourself with a sweet treat or a binge marathon of your favorite show occasionally, though intrinsic rewards provide more lasting motivation. This can be achieved by acknowledging your progress, reminding yourself of the benefits of completing your tasks, and visualizing how you’ll feel when you reach your goals. When you allow yourself to bask in these pleasures, you maximize the release of dopamine into your system, building up a strong sense of motivation.
- Repeat!!
- The more you can incorporate steps 1 and 2 as a consistent habit/ routine, the more motivation you’ll likely have to keep it up.
Finally, do your best to be kind to yourself through the process. Negative self-talk can deplete your motivation, so challenge that self-criticism! You are human, and all you can do is your best